Hello guys,
Merry Christmas and a prosperous new year in advance, it's the season of love and I will be preaching love.
What is love? Love means so many things to many individuals.
Love is patience
Kind
Romance
Selflessness
What does the term patience means? It means an understanding between two partners, over looking each other flaws, accepting each other the way you are.
Another word for patience is compromise, this is the way you are I can't change you I need to take you as you are.
Kind is doing things without expecting a reward from the other party. Am doing this because I love and appreciate you and am not expecting anything in return.
Romance is very necessary in all relationship you need to let your partner feel that romance, that spark has to be there.
Once it's no longer there your partner won't find you interesting anymore don't get me wrong am not saying you must have sex with your partner, been romantic has many definition.
Calling your partner in the morning to appreciate them is romance, knowing how they are doing and surprised visit during working period or unexpected visit as well.
It not only when you have body contact that's romance. Taking them out for dinner, texting them every now and then to know how they are doing so many, writing note to them this applies to both partners not just the other party. It applies to both parties.
Selflessness you don't have to be like Jesus Christ by dying for your partner to be selflessness, be considerate, always been there to show support for your partner even if you don't appreciate the work they do you don't have to flaunt it to their face everytime that you hate it . You need to be there for them appreciating their opinion and all.
God's love is agape and they are everlasting, and don't forget to show love this season and time, remember he died for us in order for us to live show some love to people this season.
I remain oluwabunmi and don't forget I love you yes you ...
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Saturday, 29 December 2018
Wednesday, 19 December 2018
Being in a relationship with a mummy's boy
Hello guys,
Welcome to another exciting day, it's really chilling in this part of the world, its makes you lazy, but menh we've got to work to survive 'lol'.
I will be posting the adviced given to the anonymous today and here's it.
Dear anonymous,
Am Glad you said he possesses all what you require in a man, except being a mummy's boy.
We are not perfect and as a mother I would never advice you to come in between them rather I want you to look beyond the mummys boyish thing and focus at making your relationship work.
Yes, it's can be annoying to find out all what you discuss with your man is being shared with his mother.
But I need to know, if she ever confronted you? or ask you random questions?.
Whenever you have issue with your man does she pop nose on the matter?.
If she does? you just have to accept her the way she is and ask God for wisdom.
If I were you I would be friends with her.
I have a friend that's married to a mummy's boy it was hell just as yours at first, but then she had to borrow herself brain and become friends with the mother now they are best of friends.
The son doesn't even know what's happening between them, she called my friend her daughter, now the husband is jealous of the wife saying she has snatch her mother from him ,lol.
Before you can reach that level you need to take a alot of chilled water to be very calm and try to understand the mother, where she's coming from what she has done for the son not to joke with her.
Then put your self in her shoes and see how it's feel it's just a temporary thing once you get married and children start coming in you will even be the one forcing him to go check up on her.
I would never advice you to leave your fiance because if I say this what's the assurance that the next available one will fit in that your dream man agenda ?.
What's the assurance that he will treat you right and pamper you? .
What's the assurance that he won't be a mummys boy?.
Some might say you should forget that and trust in God for a better man or tell you someone did move on and find a better man.
What's the assurance you will find that once you move on, we are different what works for A might not work for B.
God didn't say all our journey on this earth will be smooth all through, No he gave us assurance that when ever we call on His name He will answer, He value that name and honour it more than anything so sweetie work on your relationship, makes it a better one, ask God for guidance and make your man a better man..
Signing out
Temitope Bunmi
We received alot of mail, thank you so much and some of these are put in use.
We are always open to criticism because we want to be better so please always give us a feedback
Thank you
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
Welcome to another exciting day, it's really chilling in this part of the world, its makes you lazy, but menh we've got to work to survive 'lol'.
I will be posting the adviced given to the anonymous today and here's it.
Dear anonymous,
Am Glad you said he possesses all what you require in a man, except being a mummy's boy.
We are not perfect and as a mother I would never advice you to come in between them rather I want you to look beyond the mummys boyish thing and focus at making your relationship work.
Yes, it's can be annoying to find out all what you discuss with your man is being shared with his mother.
But I need to know, if she ever confronted you? or ask you random questions?.
Whenever you have issue with your man does she pop nose on the matter?.
If she does? you just have to accept her the way she is and ask God for wisdom.
If I were you I would be friends with her.
I have a friend that's married to a mummy's boy it was hell just as yours at first, but then she had to borrow herself brain and become friends with the mother now they are best of friends.
The son doesn't even know what's happening between them, she called my friend her daughter, now the husband is jealous of the wife saying she has snatch her mother from him ,lol.
Before you can reach that level you need to take a alot of chilled water to be very calm and try to understand the mother, where she's coming from what she has done for the son not to joke with her.
Then put your self in her shoes and see how it's feel it's just a temporary thing once you get married and children start coming in you will even be the one forcing him to go check up on her.
I would never advice you to leave your fiance because if I say this what's the assurance that the next available one will fit in that your dream man agenda ?.
What's the assurance that he will treat you right and pamper you? .
What's the assurance that he won't be a mummys boy?.
Some might say you should forget that and trust in God for a better man or tell you someone did move on and find a better man.
What's the assurance you will find that once you move on, we are different what works for A might not work for B.
God didn't say all our journey on this earth will be smooth all through, No he gave us assurance that when ever we call on His name He will answer, He value that name and honour it more than anything so sweetie work on your relationship, makes it a better one, ask God for guidance and make your man a better man..
Signing out
Temitope Bunmi
We received alot of mail, thank you so much and some of these are put in use.
We are always open to criticism because we want to be better so please always give us a feedback
Thank you
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
Monday, 10 December 2018
Being in a relationship with a mummy's boy
Hello!!!
Beautiful people it's a great week, so I go this from someone that needed an advice and am putting this out here.
Annoymous letter
Hello Bunmi, good job am in a relationship with a mummy's boy, I knew from the onset he was a mummy's boy, but was thinking if the relationship get deeper and stronger it's will stop .
There's no privacy, no alta of it at all in our relationship the mum knows everything about us even when we make love haba it's been 3years now and it's getting much for me to handle.
have talked, have express my mind, have threaten him that am cutting off all I hear is change and yet nothing change.
I do love him very much and this is my only problem with him.
He has all what I want just this alone...
Pleaae your advice will be appreciated this is needed fast and I will appreciate if this is posted on your blog so that it can help any other person passing through this phrase
Love you dear....
I received this from annoymous last week and she want advice on this.
Have you ever find yourself in this type of situation ?
how did you solve it?
Are you guys still back together?
How did you achieve this ?
Lets hear your feedback and how you related to this.
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
Beautiful people it's a great week, so I go this from someone that needed an advice and am putting this out here.
Annoymous letter
Hello Bunmi, good job am in a relationship with a mummy's boy, I knew from the onset he was a mummy's boy, but was thinking if the relationship get deeper and stronger it's will stop .
There's no privacy, no alta of it at all in our relationship the mum knows everything about us even when we make love haba it's been 3years now and it's getting much for me to handle.
have talked, have express my mind, have threaten him that am cutting off all I hear is change and yet nothing change.
I do love him very much and this is my only problem with him.
He has all what I want just this alone...
Pleaae your advice will be appreciated this is needed fast and I will appreciate if this is posted on your blog so that it can help any other person passing through this phrase
Love you dear....
I received this from annoymous last week and she want advice on this.
Have you ever find yourself in this type of situation ?
how did you solve it?
Are you guys still back together?
How did you achieve this ?
Lets hear your feedback and how you related to this.
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
Thursday, 6 December 2018
Hello guys,
How are you all doing ? guess you all are doing fantastically great.
So I got a mail last week Sunday, how to relate with a co jealous worker and am here today to give my own take on it.
The best way to deal with such co-worker is to ignore her.
Start minding your own business, what I meant by this statement is that you are a PA put your self in a high esteem class where she won't be able to come to you to ask you the type of cream or soap you use.
How do you do this? by respecting yourself, stay in your lane.
Don't interfere in any issues that doesn't concern you, respect yourself mind your work, you are a PA you hold a high profile in that place guide it with respect don't allow anyone to drag your reputation to the floor.
Any time she comes to your desk to ask you the type of cream you use, tell her your Colour are different and that your cream can't suit her body and if she still insist tell her you don't remember the name.
If you guys are always going for break together sweetie put a stop to it.
Face what you are doing in that office of yours.
Mind your business 100percent.
Another thing is she might start looking for your trouble in other for you guys to fight ladies like her have no shame and she might even start spreading rumours about you.
When all these happen you will really need alot of patience to deal with her I will suggest when these happen the best way to fight her is to keep silent duo it might be hard especially when she spread lies about you but like my mom used to say silent is golden
r thing am going to say is this if you start all thes
.
I hope all these help you till we meet again I love you and you know it too right??? Yea you...
For advice and Feedback please contact us at temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
How are you all doing ? guess you all are doing fantastically great.
So I got a mail last week Sunday, how to relate with a co jealous worker and am here today to give my own take on it.
The best way to deal with such co-worker is to ignore her.
Start minding your own business, what I meant by this statement is that you are a PA put your self in a high esteem class where she won't be able to come to you to ask you the type of cream or soap you use.
How do you do this? by respecting yourself, stay in your lane.
Don't interfere in any issues that doesn't concern you, respect yourself mind your work, you are a PA you hold a high profile in that place guide it with respect don't allow anyone to drag your reputation to the floor.
Any time she comes to your desk to ask you the type of cream you use, tell her your Colour are different and that your cream can't suit her body and if she still insist tell her you don't remember the name.
If you guys are always going for break together sweetie put a stop to it.
Face what you are doing in that office of yours.
Mind your business 100percent.
Another thing is she might start looking for your trouble in other for you guys to fight ladies like her have no shame and she might even start spreading rumours about you.
When all these happen you will really need alot of patience to deal with her I will suggest when these happen the best way to fight her is to keep silent duo it might be hard especially when she spread lies about you but like my mom used to say silent is golden
r thing am going to say is this if you start all thes
.
I hope all these help you till we meet again I love you and you know it too right??? Yea you...
For advice and Feedback please contact us at temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
temmybuhnmy@outlook.com
Sunday, 2 December 2018
How do I relate to this
Hello guys,
Happy Sunday to you guys, guess you all are having a great, cause iam.
Got an interesting mail from an anonymous today and she's asking for my advice and somehow have once find myself in that situation and I'm over happy to help her in this.
Mail
Hello Bunmi, great job you are doing and have never thought I would find myself in this situation not to talk of asking for advice and here IAM.
I work in a multinational company and I happen to be a personal assistant to my boss, and there's another lady that works as an admin at my place of work as well.
She was there before me and when I came in she was very friendly and all that and I reciprocated it too.
After sometime she started acting up and whenever I get things she will get the exact thing, at first I wasn't paying more attention to it, but later started noticing it, every time she ask the type of cream I use, soap, hair cream and all that.
Am so feedup, it looks like am in a competition with someone, she's always watching how I react with things and work and it's getting bad because once she notice am doing something she will stop whatever she's doing and focus her attention on me
Bunmi please I need an advice am really scared I don't know how to react to things
Happy Sunday to you guys, guess you all are having a great, cause iam.
Got an interesting mail from an anonymous today and she's asking for my advice and somehow have once find myself in that situation and I'm over happy to help her in this.
Hello Bunmi, great job you are doing and have never thought I would find myself in this situation not to talk of asking for advice and here IAM.
I work in a multinational company and I happen to be a personal assistant to my boss, and there's another lady that works as an admin at my place of work as well.
She was there before me and when I came in she was very friendly and all that and I reciprocated it too.
After sometime she started acting up and whenever I get things she will get the exact thing, at first I wasn't paying more attention to it, but later started noticing it, every time she ask the type of cream I use, soap, hair cream and all that.
Am so feedup, it looks like am in a competition with someone, she's always watching how I react with things and work and it's getting bad because once she notice am doing something she will stop whatever she's doing and focus her attention on me
Bunmi please I need an advice am really scared I don't know how to react to things
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