Being in a relationship with a mummy's boy

Hello guys,

Welcome to another exciting day, it's really chilling in this part of the world, its makes you  lazy, but menh we've got to work to survive 'lol'.

I will be posting the adviced given to the anonymous today and here's it.

Dear anonymous,

Am Glad you said he possesses all what you require in a man, except being a mummy's boy.

We are not perfect and as a mother I would never advice you to come in between them rather I want you to look beyond the mummys boyish thing and focus at making your relationship work.

Yes, it's can be annoying to find out all what you discuss with your man is being shared with his mother.

But I need to know, if she ever confronted you? or ask you random questions?.

Whenever you have issue with your man does she pop nose on the matter?.

If she does? you just have to accept her the way she is and ask God for wisdom.

If I were you I would be friends with her.

I have a friend that's married to a mummy's boy it was hell just as yours at first, but then she had to borrow herself brain and become friends with the mother now they are best of friends.

The son doesn't even know what's happening between them, she called my friend her daughter, now the husband is  jealous of the wife saying she has snatch her mother from him ,lol.

Before you can reach that level you need to take a alot of chilled water to be very calm and try to understand the mother, where she's coming from what she has done for the son not to joke with her.

Then put your self in her shoes and see how it's feel it's just a temporary thing once you get married and children start coming in you will even be the one forcing him to go check up on her.

I would never advice you to leave your fiance because if I say this what's the assurance that the next available one will fit in that your dream man agenda ?.

What's the assurance that he will treat you right and pamper you? .

What's the assurance that he won't be a mummys boy?.

Some might say you should forget that and trust in God for a better man or tell you someone did move on and find a better man.

What's the assurance you will find that once you move on, we are different what works for A might not work for B.

God didn't say all our journey on this earth will be smooth all through, No he gave us assurance that when ever we call on His name He will answer, He value that name and honour it more than anything so sweetie work on your relationship, makes it a better one, ask God for guidance and make your man a better man..


Signing out
Temitope Bunmi

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