hello everyone and happy new month

i receive this mail and the person want an urgent answer, so i will be discussing about it

MY NEW BOYFRIEND ALWAYS WANT ME TO CALL HIM FIRST IS IT NORMAL PLS HELP

there are different types of guys , some are extra-ordinary shy and some are quite type and some really weird guy that just do things without knowing if you are hurt or not, now the point is how does he feel when you call him first those he apologies sincerely and try to explain why he didnt call you since if he does that  he likes you alot and felt guilty and was trying so hard to not make you feel bad.

now what to do if this happens frequently go on a date and table how you feel about this, now when you are explaining your plight to him dont show anger, annoyance just allow the flows then say it nicely, now if you do say this and theres no changes then there is a BIG problem

1. He is committed to someone else and you are just a subordinate or a SIDE CHICK

2. you are probably a booty call someone that quench his sensation feeling

3. Hes married and his family comes first and you are one of the regular girl he see and run to when having issue at home



WHAT TO DO
 1. stopped the calling , dont call him no matter how much you miss him infact get busy till you forget him.

2. treat him like every other regular guy you meet

3. class yourself high

4. start looking for a serious dude and dupe him


Now sometimes the guy in particular might be going through some emotional  stress e.g probably he lost someone he loves and his scared to get committed again because he cant bear to lose another person, if this is the now the case dear you have to keep calling him make him forget about his past, bring him out of his shell, make him trust you totally and show that sign of not going anywhere


i hope have answer this till we meet again