HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIP

Rule #1 :- Never expect your partner to fill up the hole in your heart only God can do that :- sometimes we fall into the category of always expecting our partner to fill up some certain position in our life which are impossible, we expect so much from them and when they fail to do this we start acting up and fighting them, instead of expecting much from them, pray and commit your life and expectation in Gods hand and He will never disappoint you.

Rule #2 :- Never Yell  no matter how angry you are never shout or yell, be calm and never react negatively if you cant stand your partner at that time stroll out to a place to cool your temper.

Rule #3 :- Don't Cuss :- once you do this even if you are right you become wrong, don't cuss if there's a conflict once you do this your partner will lost interest in what ever you are trying to say.

Rule #4:- Always worked yourself to apologies first :- apologizing first never mean you are a fool or stupid, it simply means you are a bigger person that want the relationship to work out.

 Rule #5 :- Have Patience :- never make discussion in the heat of an argument, be patience and allow the matter to die down or low before doing that.

Rule #6 :- Be Authentic :- if you don't understand what your partners said ask and ask until you get it, dont act like you do while you don't, ask question if the questions you ask turn into conflict it better to fight and iron issues out than to pretend you understand and then store it in your heart. learn to know yourself.

successful couples have the ability to solve problems and let it go, they fight and make up and made amend, and forget and let go, they don't keep grudges against each other, they accepted each other flaws