TRAP

never allow any man to trapped you never.

T=Tension

R=resentment

A= Anger

P=Powerlessness

when all these occur in your relationship then that relationship isn't healthy at all.
trap is a red flag and need to be avoided in your relationship, making the same mistakes every time and apologizing about the same transgression several times, then you need to take a forever walk when this happen.

if all you need is love that makes you take all these in your relationship, then your relationship isn't healthy duo a couple certainly need oven , but more importantly they need a satisfying level of compatibility to stay together.

when a man get you trapped in a relationship then he get to treat you anyhow, and these type of men blackmail emotionally as well

HOW NOT TO BE TRAPPED

Hold him accountable for his behavior don't let it slip if he made mistakes, in fact discuss it and if you notice he want to start getting offended in order to avoid the discussion stood your ground and made sure you aren't bought with that express yourself and iron it out maturely.

Listen with a third ear when he tried explaining why he did what he did, never be influence by his sweet story focus on the main issue at hand.


let him know he is not fooling you with his jumbled takes on rationalization.

if he keep making mistakes over and over again you need to drop his ass/her ass and move on

never be manipulated by his/her cry make sure you stood your ground

in all in all we all deserve a second chance so if he/she really shoe sign of repentance then you need to give them but if they didnt my dear you just dodge a bullet you dont need a negative vibe in your life take them out.