Monday, 6 November 2017

THINGS THAT PUSHES MEN AWAY

Men are very uncomfortable being on the receiving end of too much especially from a woman they are crazy about.
WAY TO MAKE YOUR MEN HAPPY


Stop putting face on things by thinking everything is well


Stop Trying:- stop asking him to do things for you, learn to be independent men like ladies that behave like boss ladies that can take care of their needs whatever hes doing for you should be a secondary thing and not primary to you.


Let Him Know How You Feel
never pretend all is well when it is not, when he mess up let him know, stop pretending all is well when actually it isnt.


Trust
learn to trust him more if he says this is black said ok it is even when you know it isnt, dont be over sabi personality type, Men dont like been question repeatedly they tend to be pissed off and this usually turn off their interest .


Lastly stop trying to be perfect
be real be your true self, stop making sure things never got messy with you or unplesant
stop saying yes or okay to everything or everytime.
why say you are okay when you are stop forming nobody is perfect let your man see your flaws and all he even fall yakata for you because of that.




thank you and do have a great week love you guys i do hope you enjoy this and if you have problem or advice pls mail me
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com

Friday, 3 November 2017

HOW TO STOP YOUR EX FROM ALWAYS APPEARING AND DISAPPEARING IN YOUR LIFE

mail fromAnonymous Anonymous:- 

hello Bunmi you are doing a great job, 
thanks i have an ex that keeps coming to beg and once i accept him after a month or 2months 
he will disappear again this thing has been going on and off for 2years now.
am fed up and i need an advice

 thanks



i receive this mail yesterday and one thing came to my mind immediately, you are at fault or should i say you allow it.
i will be teaching on how to deal with men that subject their girlfriend to a dumping ground, what i mean by dumping ground is he treat you like a dustbin.

HOW TO DEAL WITH HIM

1. Let him know you can't stand his unseriousness anymore, stood your ground and have a discussion and if he try romancing you in order to distract you from the conversation stood your ground and let him know you guys need to talk and iron things out.

2. Stop being the reason for him to come back, you are the cause you keep giving him the gesture to do that youve involve your world around him and made him believe without him you can survive you need to stop doing this. you allowed him to treat you like a trash you need to munch a great courage and stop this, get in action be productive with your life, focus in been a better you.


3. You need to think hard on what you. what do you want? if you still want him, it gonna be a tough thinking, sit down and think it really well, do you want him to keep treating you like a trash, are you comfortable being a trash, are you a dumping ground where he run to whenever he likes, are you that low self esteemed , you need to think all this through and make your decision.

till we meet again i do hope this will help the lady.

thank you for reading and stay bless.