Love yourself

Dear Anonymous,

i promised to get back and here Iam, all i see in your write up is a lady that lacks self esteem . (so sorry for being blunt).

Dear you can't give what you don't have.

You don't love yourself enough, that why you keep subjecting yourself to paying for meals, doing what your boyfriend's were meant to be doing.

Don't get me wrong am not saying it's bad for a lady to treat her man out.

But when it's become a daily routine then my dear, it's either you are with the wrong person or you feel if you leave no one else will come.

 You then try doing everything to please the guy, and guess what !!

The guy will still go, because you are too easy for him,

Nothing exciting about you, you are so predictable.

You need to love yourself,

Motivate yourself,

Be confidence

Have that feeling like am a queen and should be treated like one.

Allow your next relationship to breath.

Give your men their space,

Wait for them to ask you out, stop jumping the table.

Give your self dignity.

Above all pray and pray and keep praying for guidance.

God be with you

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Till we meet again, yes i love you, i mean you

IS THIS NORMAL

Hello guys,

This is an exciting weekend for you all I guess, because I'm  having a blast of it.

I got a mail from an anonymous and here's what she has to say.

Hello Bunmi,

Thank you so much for this platform, it has helped greatly.

Am having a little problem here and I think you might helped out.

Have always been the only one in any relationship I find myself.

Am usually calling first

Buying gifts

Remembering our relationship anniversary

Suggesting outing

And all that and yet they usually leave or some even do on and off ( where by this month they are serious next month they are not). I'm the one forcing and all that.

Bunmi am really confused, i don't want to enter this new year with that mind set I know something is not normal about my relationship, but I find it so hard to open up  to friends because they see me as this big girl type and telling them is somehow and it's better to tell an outsider that will be blunt with the advice than people I'm close to.

I will be expecting your advice thanks so much.

Dear anonymous,

Thank you so much for trusting me and I promise to be back for advice on this and trust me dear it's will be loud.

Dear readers you are free to send in your advice , if this were to be a friend or sister what type of advice will you render to her?

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Those that has been sending mails as a way of encouragement thank you so much I really appreciate it all and I love you all , you all know that right?

Signing out

Bunmi temitope