Hello bunmi,
Great job, you are doing, so am not here to talk about any relationship, am just here for me, so I work together with this lady, and it's been so tiring, apparently she's always looking for my trouble.
And have tired avoiding her times without numbers, by facing my job squarely but she always seems to find her way back to me e.g by borrowing, once she noticed I start ignoring her and facing my job, she start with borrow my stuffs and through that she start talking with me, and after that she start her issues again, honestly am fed up.
And I need an advices thanks...
Advice
Dear Tola,
Trust me have been there, and I know what you are passing through, here's my advice be friendly towards work only, like work together as a team.
And don't get familiar with her, once she comes with her borrowing method to start getting personal with you.
Tell her you do not have whatever she want to borrow even if you have, because people like that can't change and trust me it's not worth draining your energy for.
You can't leave your job for her, so you need wisdom to work with her and that's be professional only.
Once she asked for one thing today and you said no, and after some days she asked for it again and you still maintain your No, she will stay on her lane .
I wish you well there and don't forget to give feedback regarding this and lets know if this works or not.
temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
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