Confused soul 2

Hello guys!!!!

Another exciting day over here, it's been almost two month since I posted, and have been active through mails to those that sent in their mails.

I will be talking about the confused soul that needed an advice about his lady that turn his marriage proposal down .

The world is changing and whatever list, men looked for in ladies last 5-10years ago.

They are looking for the opposite of it now.

Usually, before men are crazy about a virgin lady for marriage, but recently have received lots of mails, where men are saying they want to break up with their virgin fiancé, because they need a wildcat lady, someone who knows what to do.

So the men out here presently are really complicated, and you need lot of patience, wisdom, and above all intelligence to match up to them as a lady..

So back to the guy that asked for an advice

1. The lady in question needed an exposure, she want to try all what she fancy and you happen to fit in her quest for that man that she want.

2. She never love you, yes that's so hard to absurd, but it's the truth, women are very extremely jealous when it's come to someone they love, and they can't and won't stand their men have another woman not to talk of her wooing a lady for you.

3. A lady that loves you, won't be comfortable with you trying or playing games with another lady.

She low key wanted all that and doesn't want  you to see her as someone that does that, and she has to strategies her scheme towards you and made you fall into it..

Since you needed my advice, am going to say it the way it is according to what you sent.

Let her go, because it was all a facade, all a fantasy, all a lie, and never met to be serious. it's hard to believe, but it's the truth, she has find something in that new guy which was lacked in yours and that's a commitment, and a family oriented goals, coupled with trust which was lacked in yours with hers.

She was or might be planning to break it to you, and probably didn't know how to go about it, which made her to stopped the attention she was giving to you before, thinking you might read between the lines.

Well Mr anonymous that's all the answer you needed, relationship is exciting and also serve as a lesson to know more about us as a person and to perfect it with our imperfections.


Thanks you so much Mr. Anonymous for sending in your mails.

For advice, and comments

Please forward your mail to temmybuhnmy@gmail.com
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I remain your loyal girl xoxo T Girl

Remember to kill everyone that has throw you hate speech with kindness..