Six years relationship

Hello guys!!!!

Welcome to another exciting month and week, and my prayers for us all is that it's should favour us all.

I received this mail and it's urgent and need an urgent reply, and she said she want my blunt reply on this (😀), okay am snapped back to seriousness,  below is her mail .

Hello bunmi!!

Great job you are doing, please this is urgent and I need your urgent advice.

have been dating my guy for the past six years, as a matter of facto, this December makes it six years.

 We started dating since I was in senior class and am now a working class lady earning 60k, everything is perfect on my own end as at now. But not on his.

Ever since he left school, he has never worked, he said he can't do a job of 60-70k, because he has distinction, for almost six years now, he's been looking for a job worth 300-500k.

Bunmi  see not that I don't have faith in him, but my philosophy in life is when you appreciate something small, then the bigger doors open, am so confused, time is not on my side and am 28yrs now, I can't cope with this forever, from my own small salary,.that's what both of us has been managing from since three years now, and due to this I don't even have any savings...


I need your blunt and honest reply pls thanks

First of all, I need to commend you on your patients, it's so rare to see your kind, and that's a fact, especially in this our present world, that some ladies have three their cautions out of their windows and have done or doing all sort to ride Benz so well done.

Secondly a broke guy has nooooo business in being in a relationship, am so sorry, but this is the bitter truths, it's can never work out, when I say broke I don't mean he has to be a billionaire or a  millionaire, I meant a guy that can take care of himself and his personal needs, before offering to care for another person,

And thirdly your guy is a lazy type, he can't work or collect a salary of 60-70k, and yet he find it convenient to share your own 60k salary with you.

His a very proud fellow, who has allowed his distinction to get to his brain, and this has made him to loose so many opportunities, because he's not ready to learn and be under anyone, he want to start from the big post of ogas, which can't work in Nigeria working places.

He really need to forget distinction, infact, I have two friends that came out with that same distinction and yet work and earn 50k,

And lastly this is for you, I think in your 20's you should be building your own career and how to be a boss, no offence, you want my bluntness and this is it, because if you had been building your own future and your career, you won't ever settle for less, by putting up with such a man, and be comfortable to stay with 60k salaries and call it okay, do not get me wrong, am not saying it's bad, it's very good, but if you had put all those energy and time you invested in that six years relationship, into a business, am sure you will be a millionaire by now..

I will be stopping here today and till we meet again, I will be discussing what you need to do to make him a serious fellow.

Till then, have a great week and yes I love you, yes you

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Bye