Hi guys,
Wow so good to be back, it's been crazy working, schooling and all that.
But am finally back online and I know it's in professional to go off without letting you guys know, am so so sorry and yes I promised to post daily now.
So I have a lot of messages and I will be treating it daily, so please don't just read and go.
please we need feedback please.
We are open to that, thanks so much love you all...
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Anon
Hi Bunmi, great job you are doing , am a single mom and am in relationship with this great guy that loves me for being me, his a good man, has a great relationship with my son, now he's asking for next phase( marriage) am scared, am thinking of the future, like will I be acceppted in his family with my child, cause I can't imagine staying apart from my son, am confused Bunmi, he's been telling me not to worry that everything is in control that they know and loves me and all that, told him I need time to think about this, honestly can't think straight, am financially okay, so is he, so there won't be financial issues when we married but am still scared....
PS need advice
ADVICE
Hi dear,
So good to hear from you am so glad I received your mail recently won't have forgiven myself if I saw this late.
Never think about the future, let the future think of it's self, you are not God, allow Him to do that, the only thing you can do about the future is to invest and keep investing for your child and yourself.
Secondly forget about third party, this is about you guys, (yes he's family are important). But if a single guy saw so many single ladies out there and yet decided to stick to you, he find contentment, fulfillment in you, he doesn't think what the world thinks so why should you do that.
Thank God you are both financially capable so nobody will say he's marrying you for your money and you said hes more financially capable than you so what's stopping?
You don't need anybody approval to be happy, we all deserve a second chance, you do, I do, the whole world do, don't denied yourself this happiness .
Pray to God, ask for direction from Him, go and be happy, as long as his okay with your child and ready to be a dad to him, and believe me his family will love you,
The truth of the matter is don't expect everyone to like you in his family even those that married single their husband people did not like them , some are not even welcome till date, it's take grace of God.
Ask for His grace
Hope to hear from you soon dear much love...
PS need advice
ADVICE
Hi dear,
So good to hear from you am so glad I received your mail recently won't have forgiven myself if I saw this late.
Never think about the future, let the future think of it's self, you are not God, allow Him to do that, the only thing you can do about the future is to invest and keep investing for your child and yourself.
Secondly forget about third party, this is about you guys, (yes he's family are important). But if a single guy saw so many single ladies out there and yet decided to stick to you, he find contentment, fulfillment in you, he doesn't think what the world thinks so why should you do that.
Thank God you are both financially capable so nobody will say he's marrying you for your money and you said hes more financially capable than you so what's stopping?
You don't need anybody approval to be happy, we all deserve a second chance, you do, I do, the whole world do, don't denied yourself this happiness .
Pray to God, ask for direction from Him, go and be happy, as long as his okay with your child and ready to be a dad to him, and believe me his family will love you,
The truth of the matter is don't expect everyone to like you in his family even those that married single their husband people did not like them , some are not even welcome till date, it's take grace of God.
Ask for His grace
Hope to hear from you soon dear much love...
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